Nthawi zonse amafuna kusankha mphatso yabwino kwa munthu wokondedwa. Kawirikawiri, amai amaima pa mafuta abwino kwambiri. Komabe, funso likubwera: momwe mungasankhire mafuta onunkhira kwa mwamuna, kuti iye sakonda inu nokha, koma iye? Pambuyo pake, mafuta onunkhira amakono kwambiri, choncho zimakhala zovuta kuti nthawi yomweyo aganizire zomwe mnyamatayo amakonda. Inde, mwamuna adzakondwera ndi mphatso iliyonse kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wake, komabe akufuna kusangalatsa zana limodzi.
Zojambula zamakono
Musanayambe kusankha mafuta onunkhira kwa munthu, sikungapweteke kuti mudziwe zochitika zamakono. Mwina, ndi limodzi mwa fungo lapamwamba, mukhoza kupeza mafutawa, omwe ndi abwino kwa wokondedwa wanu. Komabe, nthawi zonse musathamangitse mafashoni. Mwachitsanzo, zaka ziwiri zapitazo, kununkhira kwa "unisex" kunkaonedwa kuti ndifungo la mafashoni, koma sikuti anthu onse ankakonda fungo, lomwe silikugogomezera kwambiri chikhalidwe chawo. Kotero musanasankhe zachikhalidwe zamakono, kumbukirani mtundu wa munthu wanu.
Mfundo zofunikira za munthu
Ngati tilankhula za zinthu zomwe zimapanga mizimu kukhala "olimbika mtima", choyamba ndikuyenera kukumbukira zolemba zamakono, komanso fungo la udzu, masamba ndi moss. Mafuta onunkhirawa nthawi zonse adzatha kutsindika mfundo ya mwamuna wamnyamata. Ndiyeneranso kukumbukira kuti fungo ili likhoza kukhala lolimba komanso lofewa. Kuwonjezera apo, mu zonunkhira za munthu, nthawi zambiri pamakhala maluwa osadziwika, zipatso zosapsa, nutmeg ndi tsabola. Maluwa amenewa ndi okondweretsa kwambiri ndipo amatha kugwirizana ndi munthu aliyense, malingana ndi kuphatikiza kwa maonekedwe a fungo.
Mizimu imadziwa khalidwe
Ngati mnyamata wanu alibe zosankha zapadera posankha mafuta onunkhira, mukhoza kudalira kwambiri kukoma kwanu ndi chidziwitso chanu. Mwa njira, sikuli kofunikira nthawizonse kusankha osangalatsa "fungo" kwa amuna chete, ndipo iwo omwe sangathe kukhala chete amakhala "owala." Mwinamwake mnyamata wanu wodekha ndi wachisomo, fungo labwino kwambiri lidzapereka mphamvu. Ndipo "ozizira" molimbika kwambiri amatsitsa khungu. Ndizofunika kuti muchite kusankha kuti fungo lisayambe kusiyana kwambiri ndi khalidwe lake. Kupaka mafuta onunkhira kuti asankhe zina, taganizirani munthu wanu, mawonekedwe ake, khalidwe lake. Choncho ndikosavuta kuti musankhe mwanzeru.
Kusankha mogwirizana ndi zokonda
Ngati mnyamata, m'malo mwake, amasankha fungo, ndiye kuti musasankhe chinthu chosiyana. Inde, kuyesera kuli bwino, koma pamene anthu amasankha gulu lina lakununkhira kwawo ndikuligwiritsa ntchito nthawi zonse, limatanthauza kuti munthuyo adapeza kale zomwe ziri zoyenera kwambiri kwa iye. Choncho, muyenera kukhala mizimu yofanana. Kuti muchite izi, kumbukirani maina a zonunkhira zomwe wokondedwawo amagwiritsa ntchito ndikufunsana ndi alangizi m'sitolo. Mukawatcha mafuta onunkhira amene munthu amakonda, amatha kukuuzani zofanana ndizo, zomwe mwasankha zomwe mumakonda kwambiri.
Kupusitsa pang'ono
Komanso, kuti musankhe bwino, mukhoza kupita kumalo osayenera. Kupita ku masitolo, ngati ngati zokhudzana ndi zinthu zina, pitani ku shopu la mafuta onunkhira ndi kunena kuti mukufuna kutengera mafuta a mchimwene, bambo kapena amalume. Mwachidziwikire, ziribe kanthu chomwe mumanena, makamaka chofunika, gwirizanitsani mnyamatayo ku chisankho. Khalani ndi chidwi pa maganizo ake ndikumbukira zinthu zomwe amakonda kwambiri. Zoonadi, chisankho chimenechi sichiyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito masiku angapo asanabadwe, chifukwa mnyamata akhoza kukuthandizani ndikudabwa kuti sizingagwire ntchito.
Koma kwa iwo omwe sakonda zodabwitsa ndipo akufuna kuganiza, ntchitoyo imakhala yosavuta komanso yosavuta. Mungathe kutenga ma probes okhala ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana kuchokera ku sitolo, ndiyeno perekani chithunzithunzi kwa mnyamata wawo. Mulole kuti asankhe zomwe amakonda, ndipo uyenera kugula. Mulimonsemo, posankha zonunkhira, yesetsani kukhalabe ndi njira yomwe mumakonda, chifukwa inunso muyenera kusangalala ndi fungo la wokondedwa.