Mu chiwerengero cha chiŵerengero, chiwerengero cha ana omwe ali ndi zolakwika zosiyanasiyana za psychoneurolo chawonjezeka kwambiri. Akatswiri amadziwa mavuto akulu awiri, omwe akukhudzana ndi chiwerengero cha ana ovuta.
Chifukwa choyamba - zochitika zapachilombo, zimaphatikizapo zovuta zachilengedwe, zizoloŵezi zoipa ndi matenda aakulu a amayi pamene ali ndi mimba, moyo wamakhalidwe ochepa komanso zachuma, kukhumudwa kwakukulu kwa amayi pa nthawi yobereka mwana, zowawa panthawi yobereka.
Chifukwa chachiwiri ndikuleredwa, chifukwa ichi chikhoza kukhazikitsidwa mwazigawo ziwiri. Kusayang'anitsitsa bwino ntchito yophunzitsa mabanja abwino, kumene makolo amapereka kwathunthu kuntchito, ndipo mwanayo amakula popanda kugwira nawo mbali. Ndipo njira yachiwiri, pamene mwanayo ali m'banja losagwira ntchito, kumene makolo amatsogolere njira yabwino ya moyo komanso saphunzitsa mwana wawo.
Mosasamala zifukwa zomwe zing'onozing'ono zimakhalira zovuta, zimadziwika ndi zomwe zimachitika. Ana awa amasiyana ndi anzawo mu khalidwe ndi chitukuko, monga lamulo, iwo ali achiwawa, osasamala, otsekedwa ndi osokonezeka. Nthawi zambiri amatsutsana ndi aphunzitsi, makolo, aphunzitsi ndi anzawo. Chifukwa cha zolakwa zawo, pali zolephera muzochita za sayansi ndi maphunziro za magulu a ana, kaya ndi sukulu kapena sukulu. Chotsatira chake, momwe aphunzitsiwo, komanso a makolo awo, amawonongeka, zotsatira za "snowball" zimatha, pamene zovuta ndi zochitika zatsopano zimakula mochulukirapo.
Udindo wa makolo mu maphunziro a ana ovuta ndi abwino, ngati osanena kuti chinthu chachikulu. Choncho tiyeni tione zomwe zimafunika kuti tidziwe makolo omwe ali ndi ana ovuta. Kawirikawiri ana omwe ali ndi vuto la mwana "wovuta", ndi njira yolondola yophunzitsira komanso mothandizidwa ndi akatswiri angapo (katswiri wa maganizo, katswiri wa zamaganizo, aphunzitsi, aphunzitsi) amakhala amtundu wamba komanso okhudzidwa ndi anthu onse, ndipo mbali zina za dongosolo la manjenje zimatsogoleredwa mwaluso ndipo zothandiza masiku ano , dziko lotukuka kwambiri. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakupanga umunthu wa "mwana wovuta" ndi ubale wachikondi, womvetsa bwino m'banja, pakati pa mwana ndi kholo, pakati pa makolo onse awiri. Zikakhala kuti palibe chiyanjano choterocho, banja liri pafupi kutha kapena kusudzulana, izi sizikusokoneza chikhalidwe cha mwanayo. Mwanayo amakula kwambiri ndipo sali wokwanira, zomwe zimakhudza khalidwe lake ndi maubwenzi ake.
Kotero, ndi chiyani chinanso chomwe mukufunikira kudziwa makolo omwe ali ndi ana ovuta? Kawirikawiri makolo amayesa kufotokoza zonse zomwe mwana wawo amawaika pamapewa a asayansi, koma matendawa, monga matenda ena onse aumunthu, amachiritsidwa movuta komanso kumwa mankhwala olembedwa ndi dokotala ndi gawo laling'ono chabe la zomwe mwanayo akufuna kuti azikwanitsa bwino. Tsopano palifunika kuyambitsa njira yovutayi, yomwe idzaphatikizapo, monga makolo okha, madokotala ndi aphunzitsi, kuphatikizapo chidziwitso ndi luso lawo kumathandiza munthu wamng'ono kukhala membala wampingo, wokhoza kulandira maphunziro abwino ndikupanga Chimodzimodzi selo labwino lomweli la anthu monga banja.
Choyamba, makolo ayenera kukhazikitsa maulendo aumwini ndi ana awo, kuyankhulana nawo kwambiri, kufunsa mafunso okhudzidwa ndi zofuna zawo, kufotokoza maganizo awo pa izi, kupereka zitsanzo kuchokera paunyamata wawo, kuwauza iwo zomwe ali nazo kusokonezeka, kumachitika ndi aliyense ndipo ambiri akugonjetsa mavuto awa. Kuonjezera apo, makolo ayenera kutsatira mfundo imodzi ndi ndondomeko yoleredwa ndi mwana, toga adzapulumutsa banja lonse ku mikangano yosafunikira yomwe imayambitsa mavuto m'banja. Kawirikawiri ana sakudziwa kuthetsa zolakwika zomwe zimawapweteka, motero amatha kuthandizidwa osati aphunzitsi okha, komanso makolo, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zojambula pogwiritsa ntchito luso (kujambula, kuwonetsera, etc.). Malingaliro a akatswiri a maganizo, moyenera kwambiri ndikofunika kuchepetsa nthawi yoti mwana apite kumbuyo kwa TV ndi makompyuta, si chinsinsi kuti "abwenzi" awiriwa amanyamulira kwambiri ana awo osakhazikika. Kotero, mmalo mwa wamkulu kuti achite bizinesi yake yomwe, ndipo mwanayo atumize makompyuta, potero amachotsa kupezeka kwake, ndi bwino kupeza chifukwa chodziwika, mwazifukwa izi, miyambo yosiyanasiyana yomwe yayiwalika (izi zikhoza kukhala maulendo ophatikizana ku masitolo, mafilimu, paki, kuyeretsa nyumba). Ngati n'kotheka, makolo ayenera kutenga nawo mbali pa moyo wawo wonse wa kalasi kapena gulu la mwana wawo, kuti athe kumvetsa zomwe mwana wawo ali nazo ndi amene akukhala, awone mavuto a kulankhulana kwake ndi aphunzitsi ndi anzake a m'kalasi ndipo atenge njira zoyenera kuti athetse. Makolo ayenera kukhala osagwirizana pa zochita zawo ndi zochita zawo, chifukwa iwo ndi chitsanzo chotsanzira.
Munthu wamkulu yemwe akufuna kuthandiza modzipereka mwana "wovuta" ayenera kukhala wokonzeka kuthandiza ndi kumumvera, kumulemekeza ndi kumukhulupirira, kupereka chikondi chake chonse. Koma nayenso ayenera kukhala wofunira komanso osayesetsa kukhazikitsa dongosolo ndi malamulo.