Kuwona ndi kuyang'ana
"Kuwona ndiko kumvetsa, kuyamikira, kusintha, kulingalira, kuiwala kapena kuiwala, kukhala ndi moyo kapena kutha." Kwa ophthalmologist, komabe, pali maso ndi chiwalo chomwe chimapangitsa kuti zitheke, maso athu. Diso kumvetsetsa kwa dokotala ndi diso, diso la optic, wophunzira, iris, lens ... Diso limatipatsa mwayi kuti tiwone, ndiko kuti, kuti tipeze chidziwitso chowona. Komabe, malingaliro ake salinso kulandiridwa mosayembekezereka kwa chizindikiro kuchokera kudziko lakunja, koma kugwirizana mwakhama nawo. Izi ndizowona. Chithunzi cha dziko lapansi lomwe likuwoneka patsogolo pathu chimalankhula zambiri za ife osati za dziko lapansi. Timaona mtundu - miyala ya turquoise, emerald, lilac, imvi - ngakhale kuti, ngakhale kuti palibe mtundu wa chilengedwe. Zimakhala zenizeni kwa ife kokha chifukwa izi ndizo mawonekedwe athu ndi malo okhudza ubongo omwe amawunikira zowona. Zomwezo zimapita kumvetsetsa zinthu zovuta kwambiri. Sitiwona chowonadi chenichenicho, koma chomwe chiri chotsatira cha chidziwitso chimodzi kapena china chimene aliyense wa ife ali nacho. Munthu wakhungu kuyambira kubadwa, ngati apambana kuona, amaona dziko ngati chisokonezo cha mitundu. Ma Eskimos amatha kusiyanitsa zoyera, monga ife, koma zambiri. Zimene tikuwona sizidalira kokha zipangizo zathu zakuthupi, komanso momwe timagwirira ntchito komanso chikhalidwe chathu. " Malingaliro athu amasankha, kotero oopsa adzawona mwala wokhazikika pa chinthucho, chomwe timatcha laputopu. Mwanayo adzakumbukira chidole monga wojambula amadziwa kachilendo kakang'ono ka chifanizo chotchuka chakale.
Ndikuwona - zikutanthauza kuti ndilipo
Zimene timaziwona pozungulira, zimadzipanga tokha. Malingaliro athu a dziko lozungulira ife akusintha nthawi zonse - kuyambira masabata oyambirira a moyo wathu. Chidziwitso chapadera ndi kuyang'ana payekha, zomwe zimatithandiza ife kuzindikira kuti ndife munthu, kumvetsetsa: "Ndine." Jacques Lacan, yemwe ndi wapamwamba kwambiri wa chikhalidwe cha ku France, athandiza mwanayo kuti adziwepo mbali ya "galasilo". Pa nthawiyi (miyezi 6 ndi 18) ndi kudzidzimva payekha pokhapokha ngati munthu akudziwonetsera kuti amamudziwa bwino. "Ine ndikudziwona ndekha - kotero ine ndiripo." Koma kodi timadziona bwanji ndipo timayang'ana bwanji zenizeni? Tikhoza kungoyankhula zawongolingaliro lokhalitsa. Ndipo ngakhale kulingalira kwachibale kumeneku kulipo kokha kwa munthu wokhwima - munthu amene amadziwa mokwanira mphamvu zawo ndi malire awo. Maganizo amalakwika, chifukwa nthawi zina zenizeni sizingatheke kwa ife. Izi zikutanthauza kuti sizingatheke kuti ife tivomereze "zenizeni tokha" - omwe tili enieni. " Zoona zenizeni, psychoanalyst ikufotokozera, nthawi zambiri zimatipangitsa ife kumva zovuta kuti tipulumuke: kaduka, lingaliro lakusiya, kusungulumwa, kukhala wochepa. Maganizo amenewa ndikumayambitsa "galasi" yathu yamkati. Choncho, sitikuwona zomwe ziridi, koma zomwe tikufuna kuziwona. Choncho m'chipululu pamaso pa munthu chifukwa chakumva ludzu, chifaniziro cha oasis chimawuka, pomwe madzi oyera amatha kuchokera ku kasupe. Amene amanena mawu akuti "Sindimakonda ndekha" amatanthauza "Sindikonda fano langa", "Ndakhumudwa chifukwa ndikuwoneka ndekha". Kuti muyang'ane nokha kuchokera kunja, kuti mudziyesere kudzimvetsa nokha bwino, ndi ntchito yokhala ndi chithandizo. Ili ndi ntchito yovuta, ndipo zingakhale zovuta chifukwa chinyengo chomwe chinamangidwa ndi diso lathu lotetezeka sichidzakhala ndi zofanana ndi zomwe tingafune. Zonsezi sizikuchitika kokha kuchokera ku maonekedwe okongola, komanso kuchokera ku mithunzi yambiri, yomwe imayambitsa kusagwirizana. Komabe, njira iyi yokha ingatithandize kuti tidziyanjanitse tokha, kutenga zofooka zathu ndi ulemu wathu, kumvetsetsa kwathunthu. Kudziona nokha ndiko kudzikonda nokha.