Simungathe kupereka uphungu wabwino pa kusankha mphatso imene idzakwaniritse mnyamata wanu, popeza zosangalatsa za amuna ndizosiyana komanso sizikudziwikiratu popanda kudziwa munthu, ndizovuta.
Chimene sichiyenera kuperekedwa, ndibwino kukumbukira
Choyamba, ngati mutangoyamba chibwenzi ndipo mukufuna kwenikweni kusangalatsa mnyamata, musawononge ndalama. Musagule mphatso zamtengo wapatali, zochepa chabe komanso zodabwitsa, kaya ndi tsiku lakubadwa kapena Khrisimasi. Koma musaiwale za zokonda za wokondedwa, kaŵirikaŵiri kawiri kawiri ndi kosadabwitsa.
Chachiwiri, musapange mphatso iliyonse pa mphatso, monga kujambula ngati mtima wa okonda chikondi kapena kupereka chithunzi chanu chogwirizana nawo mu mtengo wapatali. Mphatso yoteroyo ingawopsyeze munthu, makamaka ngati muli limodzi posachedwa. Pambuyo pake, aliyense amadziwa kuti ambiri oimira za kugonana amphamvu amawopa ubale weniweni.
Chachitatu, pamene mupanga mphatso, musayembekezere kuti mubwerere. Ndiyetu mumayesetsa kupereka mphatso, choncho wokondedwa wanu samasowa kukupatsani chirichonse panthawi imeneyo. Ndipo ngati adakupangitsani inu kudabwa, koma osati omwe mumayang'anira, simusowa kuti musonyeze malingaliro anu. Munthu wanzeru amadziwa kuti sanasangalale nthawi ina kuti apereke chinthu china chofunika kwambiri.
Tsopano tiyenera kusankha chomwe tingapereke chimodzimodzi?
Posankha mphatso kwa wokondedwa muyenera kumanga pa zokoma zake, zosangalatsa komanso khalidwe lake. Mwachitsanzo, wothamanga sangakonde kudabwa ndi mawonekedwe a makompyuta, koma m'malo mwake, adzalandira mphatso yomwe idzasangalatse makhalidwe ake othamanga.
Ngati mnyamata wanu akugwira ntchito kapena akuchita bizinesi, ndiye kuti posankha mphatso, sikofunikira, kwa tsiku lobadwa kapena chaka chatsopano, musankhe zinthu zamalonda kwa iye. Zingakhale zikho, mtengo wamtengo wapatali, ngongole kufunika kwake.
Anyamata omwe amakonda masewera, mukhoza kupereka masewera, masewera kapena kapu ya mpira. Okonda kuyenda angapange mphatso yapachiyambi ngati thumba lalikulu.
Komabe, kumangoganizira zofuna za wokondedwa, khalidwe liyeneranso kulingalira. Anthu omwe ali ndi chikhalidwe chosangalala akhoza kudabwa ndi kuseketsa, mwachitsanzo, kuunika kwapachiyambi monga bukhu kapena basitomala. Amuna akulu amafunikira mphatso ndikupereka zofunikira.
Tsopano ndi nthawi yopanga mphatso ndi manja anu omwe. Mukhoza kupanga khadi losangalatsa lokhala ndi cholembera. Kwa atsikana omwe akugwira ntchito yomenya, mungamangirire mnyamata wachisanu chofiira kapena magolovesi - wokonda adzalandira mphatso yotere, chifukwa wapangidwa ndi manja anu.
Kuti mupereke mphatso yokondedwa wanu mphatso, muyenera kuganizira zinthu zina:
- ngati theka lanu lachiwiri silikusangalatsani, muyenera kumuchenjezeratu kuti akuyembekezera chinachake chapadera lero. Pambuyo pozindikira malingaliro anu, adzatha kukupatsani mphatso kuti pamene akudabwitsidwa, samva bwino ndipo ali ndi zomwe angakuuzeni;
- ngati wokondedwa wanu amangochita zinthu zodabwitsa, ndiye mum'patse mphatso mosayembekezereka, musanayambe kuchita zimenezi. Pankhaniyi, adzakondwera kwambiri ndi chidwi chanu ndikupanga zodabwitsa zomwe simukuziyembekezereka kwa inu nthawi yotsatira.
Chinthu chachikulu chimene simuyenera kuiwala pa kusankha mphatso, kapena kuwonetsera kwake, kuti zichitike ndi mtima wonse. Choncho perekani mphatso, muwapeze ndi kukhala osangalala.